Dilemma

Have you ever experience a  dilemma? When you are totally not sure which road, direction or choice to be made. 

I remembered when I was having my major exams during exam period in June. My Uni friend manage to have a talk with me about dreams and what kind of career I want to pursue. My friend of mine did a psychology and personality test on me in order to determine what kind of person I am. One important question she asked me was: What does realistic dreams mean to you? I answered: Dreams that are real, actual and possible. She immediately rejected my answer she told me realistic dreams are the dreams that you make it possible. I was stunned like a scarecrow. The only thing that came across my mind was dance. I always thought that dance will not be my career, but when you know you love something so much. You will not stop doing it and stop not to think about it. Indeed it is dance that will always be in my mind. If you are refer as great dancer means you are born and talented in dance, but if you are refer as good dancer instead of great. It means you have the ability to dance well but not passionately. My friend told me live your life like you want it, not live your life to fulfill duties for others. Dance and Real Estate were both my dilemmas.  

I started to panic and went into deep thoughts mode trying to puzzle my life properly. And then I finally understand why I didn't choose dance instead of real estate. These are my reasons:

1) Shelter life of dance is short, but real estate I can do it for life. 

2) If I study real estate, I am able to help and contribute to the society more compare to dance. 

3) I need a secure job and an easier way to make a living in life.

4) I am not a person who knows what I really want to be since young and real estate is a brand new path for me to explore. 

5) I love to create new development and make a change in an area with incredibly nice design. 

6) I am a person who wants to help my dad to fulfill his dream and continue to develop more new areas. 

7) I want to be a professional Valuer once I graduated from University. 

8) There are so much more things I am very keen to learn and to know about real estate. 

9) I want to earn lots of money and travel around the world. With real estate, I believe I can achieve that. 

10) Most importantly I am a family person who would want to earn lots of money to take care of the entire family. 

    

I guess at this age. Most of us are still searching for ourselves. To know better and to understand ourselves better. But I am really glad right now, I can differentiated properly between dance and real estate. 

Conclusion: 

Dance- Hobby

Real Estate- Career

I am not going back on my words! I won't give up! 

:)